It is common to hear that "The man would sacrifice love for sex, and the woman would sacrifice sex for love". Therefore some woman are willing to give sex to a man they love, and then ask for a commitment after the act is done. Most of the time, the man gets freaked out.
Unmarried couples getting engaged in sex is very common today. It is not too far off to call it the "norm". Some of the women treat sex casually whereas others actually want their men to commit to them. It is just not said. The problem here is that sex is given too early. Most good men would actually be willing to wait for marriage before engaging with sex with his love. Therefore, to the woman, she is assuming things too much. Perhaps it is true that the woman is really willing to give sex for love, one that is officially committed as in marriage. The problem is that she dare not ask the man if he is willing to commit before engaging in sex.
A man will regard a sexual act as one that is mutually agreeable, and therefore he does not hold certain liability to it. If he was serious about you, he does not need the sex to commit. And the other hand, if he was not, you will be wasting your time on him. Sec should only be reserved for one that you love, and loves you. By offering sex in the early game, the man assumes you are mature enough to handle it, therefore he feels he doe not have to give anything else in return.
So abstain from sex until the man has promised to commit to you. Make him feel that he is getting any sex until marriage. At the same time, be such great person that your man will fear losing. Remember that if he really wants you, he will be willing to wait for sex after marriage.
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